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How to reject someone nicely?

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Post by 42bamnech058 Thu Nov 07, 2019 12:48 pm

I am not sure if we can do it nicely, but I would reduce talking or not be responding properly. You may ignore them deliberately that the person would take it as a hint and identify that something is not right. The other person may understand it or would not bother to care about it, and be silent and leave you.

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Post by 42nutcha050 Tue Nov 12, 2019 12:51 am

It depends on whether they've actually told you that they want a relationship with you or not.
Be unpleasant about it and let them hate you. It's by far the kindest, but people don't want to do it because they'd rather preserve their egos and self-image.

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Post by 41Napat013 Tue Nov 12, 2019 1:52 am

It's quite a hard question to answer.
For me, It is depending on the situation.
Sometimes, it is good to keep it super simple. just tell them directly.
But for some, I have to save someone feeling.

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Post by 41yanisa011 Sun Nov 17, 2019 4:35 pm

In my opinion, there is no nice way to reject a person who does not love. Anyway, when I want to reject someone, I will gradually leave him.
Being quiet is a good way. Or maybe I just tell him directly that I don't feel comfortable to talk with him anymore.

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Post by 42tanawat055 Sun Nov 17, 2019 4:37 pm

You just say something like, "Sorry, I'm not interested." or "No." If you want to be extra gentle about it, you can say something like, "I'm flattered, but not interested.", "No, thank you.", or "Thank you for asking, but I'm not interested." If they push for anything beyond that, they are the ones being rude.

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Post by Ex1Ash069 Sun Nov 17, 2019 4:42 pm

Honestly, no such things as a kind rejection because rejection is a tough things to deal with for the other person, but if they truly insists, and you already declined, then they are just being rude to you. You should be direct about it and if you know that person well, then say to them why you reject them. Make them understand where you are coming from instead of just a "no, sorry". I would much prefer to be rejected and a reason to it than just a straight no if I know the person for some time.

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Post by 41Nutthidaporn052 Sun Nov 17, 2019 9:45 pm

For me, I think it is quite difficult, but we can do it.
I chose to tell them to understand that what is the cause.
When I have to reject someone, I will speak with a sincere voice.
I believe that everyone will understand us. If we are sincere to them.

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Post by 42Audchariya041 Sun Nov 17, 2019 9:53 pm

You don't own them an explanation, Just tell them you're not interested. You don't have to get into it any more than that. It's not harsh, it's just direct. Rejection sucks no matter how much you sugar coated so you may as well be clear.

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Post by 41nuttikan085 Sun Nov 17, 2019 10:53 pm

Actually, if I really want to reject someone nicely, I will tell them the reasons directly why I have to reject them. I believe that they would understand our reasons and stop to urge us. However, if they don't understand our point of views. I show that rejecting with a good conversation is not enough.

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Post by 32wongsatorn060 Mon Nov 18, 2019 6:24 am

Personally, I can't do this. I can't reject someone nicely because of all of my life I always accept the request of them what they want or what they need I always accept that request. However, If I had enough courage, I would tell them that, please can you do it yourself because I have a lot of work to do or I'm busy and say sorry to them nicely.

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Post by 42Suchanat037 Sat Nov 23, 2019 2:33 pm

Rejection isn't easy on anyone, whether you're the one being rejected or the one doing the rejecting.
It's also important to remain kind, and be careful of their feeling. Also, give them the reasons why you are rejecting them.
You have to know that you cannot always care what others think. Do what it rights and always care your feeling first.


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Post by 31Palida036 Wed Nov 27, 2019 7:38 pm

For me, I would say no by using the soft voice and explian about the reason why I have to reject them. Also I will say sorry to them if I have to reject an important things that they really need.

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