How to reject someone nicely?
+8
42Audchariya041
41Nutthidaporn052
Ex1Ash069
42tanawat055
41yanisa011
41Napat013
42nutcha050
42bamnech058
12 posters
Page 1 of 1
How to reject someone nicely?
I am not sure if we can do it nicely, but I would reduce talking or not be responding properly. You may ignore them deliberately that the person would take it as a hint and identify that something is not right. The other person may understand it or would not bother to care about it, and be silent and leave you.
Bamnech 058 4EN
Bamnech 058 4EN
42bamnech058- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-31
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
It depends on whether they've actually told you that they want a relationship with you or not.
Be unpleasant about it and let them hate you. It's by far the kindest, but people don't want to do it because they'd rather preserve their egos and self-image.
Nutcha 050 4EN
Be unpleasant about it and let them hate you. It's by far the kindest, but people don't want to do it because they'd rather preserve their egos and self-image.
Nutcha 050 4EN
42nutcha050- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-24
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
It's quite a hard question to answer.
For me, It is depending on the situation.
Sometimes, it is good to keep it super simple. just tell them directly.
But for some, I have to save someone feeling.
Napat 013 4EN
For me, It is depending on the situation.
Sometimes, it is good to keep it super simple. just tell them directly.
But for some, I have to save someone feeling.
Napat 013 4EN
41Napat013- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-30
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
In my opinion, there is no nice way to reject a person who does not love. Anyway, when I want to reject someone, I will gradually leave him.
Being quiet is a good way. Or maybe I just tell him directly that I don't feel comfortable to talk with him anymore.
Yanisa 011 4EN
Being quiet is a good way. Or maybe I just tell him directly that I don't feel comfortable to talk with him anymore.
Yanisa 011 4EN
41yanisa011- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 275
Join date : 2019-07-24
Age : 26
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
You just say something like, "Sorry, I'm not interested." or "No." If you want to be extra gentle about it, you can say something like, "I'm flattered, but not interested.", "No, thank you.", or "Thank you for asking, but I'm not interested." If they push for anything beyond that, they are the ones being rude.
Tanawat 055 4EN
Tanawat 055 4EN
42tanawat055- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-31
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
Honestly, no such things as a kind rejection because rejection is a tough things to deal with for the other person, but if they truly insists, and you already declined, then they are just being rude to you. You should be direct about it and if you know that person well, then say to them why you reject them. Make them understand where you are coming from instead of just a "no, sorry". I would much prefer to be rejected and a reason to it than just a straight no if I know the person for some time.
Ash 069 Ex1
Ash 069 Ex1
Ex1Ash069- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 274
Join date : 2019-07-24
Age : 27
Location : Brunei Darussalam
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
For me, I think it is quite difficult, but we can do it.
I chose to tell them to understand that what is the cause.
When I have to reject someone, I will speak with a sincere voice.
I believe that everyone will understand us. If we are sincere to them.
Nutthidaporn 052 4EN
I chose to tell them to understand that what is the cause.
When I have to reject someone, I will speak with a sincere voice.
I believe that everyone will understand us. If we are sincere to them.
Nutthidaporn 052 4EN
41Nutthidaporn052- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-21
Age : 26
Location : Amnat Charoen
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
You don't own them an explanation, Just tell them you're not interested. You don't have to get into it any more than that. It's not harsh, it's just direct. Rejection sucks no matter how much you sugar coated so you may as well be clear.
Audchariya 041 4EN
Audchariya 041 4EN
42Audchariya041- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-31
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
Actually, if I really want to reject someone nicely, I will tell them the reasons directly why I have to reject them. I believe that they would understand our reasons and stop to urge us. However, if they don't understand our point of views. I show that rejecting with a good conversation is not enough.
Nuttikan 085 4EN
Nuttikan 085 4EN
41nuttikan085- ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 230
Join date : 2019-07-21
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
Personally, I can't do this. I can't reject someone nicely because of all of my life I always accept the request of them what they want or what they need I always accept that request. However, If I had enough courage, I would tell them that, please can you do it yourself because I have a lot of work to do or I'm busy and say sorry to them nicely.
Wongsatorn 060 3EN
Wongsatorn 060 3EN
32wongsatorn060- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 271
Join date : 2019-07-21
Age : 25
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
Rejection isn't easy on anyone, whether you're the one being rejected or the one doing the rejecting.
It's also important to remain kind, and be careful of their feeling. Also, give them the reasons why you are rejecting them.
You have to know that you cannot always care what others think. Do what it rights and always care your feeling first.
Suchanat 037 4EN
It's also important to remain kind, and be careful of their feeling. Also, give them the reasons why you are rejecting them.
You have to know that you cannot always care what others think. Do what it rights and always care your feeling first.
Suchanat 037 4EN
42Suchanat037- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 272
Join date : 2019-08-27
Re: How to reject someone nicely?
For me, I would say no by using the soft voice and explian about the reason why I have to reject them. Also I will say sorry to them if I have to reject an important things that they really need.
Palida 036 3EN
Palida 036 3EN
31Palida036- ศาสตราจารย์
- Posts : 270
Join date : 2019-07-24
Page 1 of 1
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
|
|